If you are having trouble with your relationship do not despair, you do have a chance to save it. The key is to know the right things to say and do, that will help bring the relationship back to life. If you think you are on the edge of a break up it will be more difficult to pull off, but if you can catch signs of trouble, you can use these tips for saving a relationship.
1) Formulate a plan to save your relationship. Try to schedule things the two of you can do together at times that fits both of your schedules. The goal is find ways that will strengthen the bond between the two of you.
2) Find out what the problem is that is creating your trouble. There must be some underlying element that is causing the two of you to fight or not get along any more. Find out what it is and fix it.
Once you have discovered what the problem may be you need to be able to communicate with each other. Not communicating is one of the issues of drifting apart or avoiding someone. Also try to get closer together when you talk, don't be physically far apart.
3) If you have kids, hire a babysitter or drop them off at friends house and the two of you do something alone. Spend some quality time to enjoy each other. Try to remember what it was like when you first met, what was it that attracted you to each other.
Try your best to use these techniques and you should be able to salvage the relationship you deserve. If you need help you can find books that will give you more insight.