The chances are that sometime in your life you have experienced a relationship break up, unless you have been with your first love forever. If you are looking for some pointers on how to overcome a break up read further for some tips.
Remember that the end of a relationship is not the end of the world. You will meet someone else and fall in love again, that is what happens. In fact you could take advantage of this time you are alone by doing some things that your ex would never have been interested in. You can spend time with your friends which you have not spent time with for a while. Enjoy yourself now and it will lift your spirits and help you get through this break up.
If you decide you want to get your ex to take you back there are some things you should do and not do. First is to not act desperate to get them back; that will only push them further away. You need to let your ex see a positive and happy side of yourself even if you are hurting inside from having broken up. Try to be the person your ex knew when the two of you first met; there was something about you that attracted them.
If you are feeling miserable over losing your lover it’s ok to cry about it. Just do not go on and on over it. You will have to come to grips with it and the sooner the better so you can get on with your life. If you are having a really bad time getting over it maybe a counselor could help you cope.
Take advantage of the situation as a learning tool. Taking a seemingly bad situation and learning a lesson from it can help prevent it from happening again. Maybe this break up was not your fault; the other person could have got cold feet when they found themselves getting serious with you. It could be any number of reasons but if you want them back try getting in contact with them and see if they would meet you at some neutral location to talk. You may find they have been waiting for your call.
Men and women have a different way of seeing things and could have interpreted the break up in two different ways. Being able to get together and talk about it as calm adults may shed some light on the real issues and the two of can find a way to reconcile.